i'm just curious. i always catch this chick in my class looking at me from across the room. and everytime i catch her she looks away. the other day i caught her and she gave me a big ass smile. this chick is really hot also, do you guys think she finds me attractive or its nothing... im gonna talk to her next time!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
just curious!!!
- Thread starter yama600rr
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
Dude, you KNOW what to do, go & do it.
Lexie
Don Juan
She's definitely interested!
retired_dude
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Please tell me that you don't think if someone smiles at you that they want you. I get dozens of smiles every single day from girls. I know I am sexy, but that doesn't mean that they all want to do the dirty tango with me.
Sometimes I smile at really ugly old women. I feel that I am giving them some sunshine in an otherwise dark and dreary life.
If you want to talk to her there is no harm in it. Just remember that a smile is not the same as her slipping you her number.
Sometimes I smile at really ugly old women. I feel that I am giving them some sunshine in an otherwise dark and dreary life.
If you want to talk to her there is no harm in it. Just remember that a smile is not the same as her slipping you her number.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
dude get off your ass and talk to her after class lol. Good luck man. =)