i'm just curious. i always catch this chick in my class looking at me from across the room. and everytime i catch her she looks away. the other day i caught her and she gave me a big ass smile. this chick is really hot also, do you guys think she finds me attractive or its nothing... im gonna talk to her next time!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
just curious!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
Dude, you KNOW what to do, go & do it.
Lexie
Don Juan
She's definitely interested!
retired_dude
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Please tell me that you don't think if someone smiles at you that they want you. I get dozens of smiles every single day from girls. I know I am sexy, but that doesn't mean that they all want to do the dirty tango with me.
Sometimes I smile at really ugly old women. I feel that I am giving them some sunshine in an otherwise dark and dreary life.
If you want to talk to her there is no harm in it. Just remember that a smile is not the same as her slipping you her number.
Sometimes I smile at really ugly old women. I feel that I am giving them some sunshine in an otherwise dark and dreary life.
If you want to talk to her there is no harm in it. Just remember that a smile is not the same as her slipping you her number.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
dude get off your ass and talk to her after class lol. Good luck man. =)