"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just curious about something.. Can anyone help me out?

narcissist

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So i was hoping some of you d.juans can give me some advice on the following situation...

this girl i met like 2 months ago at school seemed to be pretty keen but i had a girlfriend at the point (i ended it 2 weeks ago) so i didnt do anything... but now that im not with my ex anymore ive been talking to this girl, at school and on facebook and she seems pretty interested... she wants to study with me and when i joke around with her she plays along quite well...

i dont want to add to much info because i know u guys have S**t to do so ill just leave it at that..

i found out like 2 days ago she has a crush on one of my friends.. but my friend isnt interested... just curious should i still pursue? or should i next? i hang out with this guy everyday at school so i honestly have no idea... let me know what you guys think... i would say her level of interest in me is probably 7-8/10

worth it to pursue? or do you guys foreshadow some drama..

oh i might add i just want to fxxk her lol im not even about to relationship her up... so maybe that would change your guys opinion

anyways thanks for reading you guys.. let me know your input!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kbomb

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Who is making the rules? You are.
 

HyperAnalyze

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Sounds like a girl who just has crushes on guys just to have crushes.

Take her out and do something. Escalate. Truly find out the answer.

Don't be discouraged if she has a crush on her friend but hasn't voiced her crush on you first.

Woman can be bi-polar at times. F--k her while you can and get out of the situation.
 
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