"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just curious about something.. Can anyone help me out?

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So i was hoping some of you d.juans can give me some advice on the following situation...

this girl i met like 2 months ago at school seemed to be pretty keen but i had a girlfriend at the point (i ended it 2 weeks ago) so i didnt do anything... but now that im not with my ex anymore ive been talking to this girl, at school and on facebook and she seems pretty interested... she wants to study with me and when i joke around with her she plays along quite well...

i dont want to add to much info because i know u guys have S**t to do so ill just leave it at that..

i found out like 2 days ago she has a crush on one of my friends.. but my friend isnt interested... just curious should i still pursue? or should i next? i hang out with this guy everyday at school so i honestly have no idea... let me know what you guys think... i would say her level of interest in me is probably 7-8/10

worth it to pursue? or do you guys foreshadow some drama..

oh i might add i just want to fxxk her lol im not even about to relationship her up... so maybe that would change your guys opinion

anyways thanks for reading you guys.. let me know your input!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who is making the rules? You are.
 
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Sounds like a girl who just has crushes on guys just to have crushes.

Take her out and do something. Escalate. Truly find out the answer.

Don't be discouraged if she has a crush on her friend but hasn't voiced her crush on you first.

Woman can be bi-polar at times. F--k her while you can and get out of the situation.
 
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