"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gf walked out. Spider senses tingling. Looks like she's gone to my former best friends place. He currently hates me after we had a massive argument.

So two people close to me I both dislike me.....hmm format doesn't take a genius to envisage a less than ideal scenario. I told her she walks out ands that it. She did . Fvck it. I'm drunk on whisky and listening to the Pogues. Tonight is going to be hard but tomorrow will be so much better. In my heart i know it's the right thing. Just got to ride this pain and I'll be good.

"The boys on the nypd choir...and the bells are ringing out for Christmas time"


Wish me luck gents.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just think back on how you felt after previous breakups. Now what do you feel about them? Probably nothing. Just realize that with time you'll feel the same way about this one.
 
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Gf walked out. Spider senses tingling. Looks like she's gone to my former best friends place. He currently hates me after we had a massive argument.

So two people close to me I both dislike me.....hmm format doesn't take a genius to envisage a less than ideal scenario. I told her she walks out ands that it. She did . Fvck it. I'm drunk on whisky and listening to the Pogues. Tonight is going to be hard but tomorrow will be so much better. In my heart i know it's the right thing. Just got to ride this pain and I'll be good.

"The boys on the nypd choir...and the bells are ringing out for Christmas time"


Wish me luck gents.
Whatever you do, just don't talk to or see her. Any malicious action she takes is meant to get a reaction. Starve the beast.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm drunk on whisky and listening to the Pogues.
Ah, the Pogues...

Okay, it's time for Sayonara
Go on, Yankee break my heart
There's nothing left for us to say now
Even the best friends, they must part


It gets better with time dude. Have your meltdown, have your cry, break some 5hit that you won't regret to get your anger out, do whatever works for you. After you're done all that, start working on your recovery.
 

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**** man tough break.. only one cure.. get laid..
It's too raw for that. I literally couldn't look at anopther woman right now.

Got so fvcked last night to drown the pain away.

I don't like to dwell on pain., I'll get past this.
 

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Ah, the Pogues...

Okay, it's time for Sayonara
Go on, Yankee break my heart
There's nothing left for us to say now
Even the best friends, they must part


It gets better with time dude. Have your meltdown, have your cry, break some 5hit that you won't regret to get your anger out, do whatever works for you. After you're done all that, start working on your recovery.
Thank you.

Currently nursing a very strong coffeee.

Next step is shower and then I'm going to find some way to entertain myself for the day.

We live together so hopefully she will come round and collect her stuff and leave me alone.
 

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I do not envy you. Breakups take a toll on a man...especially if there is shady **** going on and especially if you LIVE together. Ugh man. Tough break...for me the real emotion/damage shows itself a couple days afterbreakup. stay strong
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stay strong brah.. one day soon she will be a distant memory.. and u will never lòok back

My last breakup i felt like she was only woman for me.. now i look back and think what the hell
 

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Next step is shower and then I'm going to find some way to entertain myself for the day.

We live together so hopefully she will come round and collect her stuff and leave me alone.
That situation always sucks. Time for you to find stuff to fill your days until she moves the fvck out. When I was waiting for my ex-wife's boyfriend to shove his wife out (so my ex could move in), I was barely at home. Spend time with people in your social circles. If you don't have a social circle, it's time to get one going. Go visit relatives, take a drive, go out of town, shoot some guns in the country, do whatever to keep yourself busy and occupied.
 
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