"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just broke up, She cheated 4 times, Need advice to live strong.

pooparu

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TBh man, this is pretty much yourfault. I think Ace said it before I did, but the advice you should have went in with is, "If she cheats once, drop her".

Personally I'm not gonna call her scum, etc, cuz its just gonna reinforce that she is a bad person and you did nothing wrong. Reflect, see where you went wrong as well and GROW from it, and next time don't let her suck some other guys off four times before you do something about it.

Note: I'm not saying she's NOT a bad person either, but quite frankly cheating, etc, isn't that serious to me, just break it off and keep going. I also don't avoid that NC t hing, its what women do. The best revenge is to live well. In fact, instead of hanging up and **** you should've just chilled out and said, "look its over, I'm sure I'll see you around town, but nothing's going to happen between us, now I've got **** to do, talk to you later"

It's alot better then cursing her off, wasting your breath, shortening your lifespan by getting all pissed, etc. You were hurt, great man, the pain is transient.

My new catchphrase:

EMBRACE PAIN, IT'S HOW YOU KNOW YOU'RE ALIVE.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd be happy just to have a hot chick that would cheat on me.
 

Remulak

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Don't ever talk to this stupid ass h0 again. She cheated four times?!?!!?!? DELTE HER NUMBER NEVER....TALK TO THIS BROAD AGAIN. NOBODY DESERVES THAT.
 

Krassus

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omgwtfm8 said:
She was 17. I was super close to her parents. She lives 5 minutes away. I'll def. see her around town and going out. How should i handle these confrontations and if she called me?
Ignore her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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