"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just broke up, She cheated 4 times, Need advice to live strong.

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TBh man, this is pretty much yourfault. I think Ace said it before I did, but the advice you should have went in with is, "If she cheats once, drop her".

Personally I'm not gonna call her scum, etc, cuz its just gonna reinforce that she is a bad person and you did nothing wrong. Reflect, see where you went wrong as well and GROW from it, and next time don't let her suck some other guys off four times before you do something about it.

Note: I'm not saying she's NOT a bad person either, but quite frankly cheating, etc, isn't that serious to me, just break it off and keep going. I also don't avoid that NC t hing, its what women do. The best revenge is to live well. In fact, instead of hanging up and **** you should've just chilled out and said, "look its over, I'm sure I'll see you around town, but nothing's going to happen between us, now I've got **** to do, talk to you later"

It's alot better then cursing her off, wasting your breath, shortening your lifespan by getting all pissed, etc. You were hurt, great man, the pain is transient.

My new catchphrase:

EMBRACE PAIN, IT'S HOW YOU KNOW YOU'RE ALIVE.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd be happy just to have a hot chick that would cheat on me.
 
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Don't ever talk to this stupid ass h0 again. She cheated four times?!?!!?!? DELTE HER NUMBER NEVER....TALK TO THIS BROAD AGAIN. NOBODY DESERVES THAT.
 
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omgwtfm8 said:
She was 17. I was super close to her parents. She lives 5 minutes away. I'll def. see her around town and going out. How should i handle these confrontations and if she called me?
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Ignore her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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