"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just being friendly

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drTran

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My first post on these boards!

When I am talking to girls, I think most of the time they think I'm just being friendly and don't know that I'm attracted to them. How do I let them know I'm intersted in them instead of just trying to have a 1-minute conversation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dirtheart

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Welcome to the boards DrTran.

I have kind of the opposite problem. Sometimes I tend to give off a seductive vibe when I'm trying to be friendly.

I'd suggest maintaining eye contact as you speak, talk slow and smooth, and if you're comfortable, try a bit of kino (subtle touching). I think they should get the message.
 
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cffrmw

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i suggest reading the dj bible, or even just using the search to find the answer to a question asked hundreds of times before.
 
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cffrmw is righteous.

Honestly, stupid newbs don't know how to do basics.
 
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