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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just being friendly

drTran

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My first post on these boards!

When I am talking to girls, I think most of the time they think I'm just being friendly and don't know that I'm attracted to them. How do I let them know I'm intersted in them instead of just trying to have a 1-minute conversation?
 

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Dirtheart

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Welcome to the boards DrTran.

I have kind of the opposite problem. Sometimes I tend to give off a seductive vibe when I'm trying to be friendly.

I'd suggest maintaining eye contact as you speak, talk slow and smooth, and if you're comfortable, try a bit of kino (subtle touching). I think they should get the message.
 

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i suggest reading the dj bible, or even just using the search to find the answer to a question asked hundreds of times before.
 

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cffrmw is righteous.

Honestly, stupid newbs don't know how to do basics.
 
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