"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just because you have a goalie doesn't mean I cant score

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"Just because you have a goalie doesn't mean I cant score"

something a buddy of mine heard or came up with. tell me if i'm repeating something from here btw.

response to Girl: "I have a bf" types of or related lines.

Good, Bad, field test worthy?

I haven't had the opportunity to use it yet but ill give it a try when I have the opportunity.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Never use canned lines. Not only that, but you dont want to make it obvious to the girl that you're trying to get in her pants.
 
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I've used:

"Just because your boyfriend is the goalie for the hockey team, doesn't mean he can save this one" as I confidently walked towards her with my raging hard on.
 
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The line is good in terms of your mindset - but bad to actually say to her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls use the "I have a boyfriend" line as a defense mechanism. A lot of times they won't even have one. I've been the "boyfriend" to my lady friends from time to time when they were getting hit on by creepy guys.
 
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The best response: That's fine, I have a girlfriend, so what's your point?
 
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thecurtainfalls said:
The line is good in terms of your mindset - but bad to actually say to her.
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Thecurtainfalls is right on the money. Saying "I'm going to **** you and theres nothing you can do about it," or some stupid ****y bullsh*t like that will not impress a girl....unless she's a total slvt or something....that line is pretty stupid, and as said above canned stuff usually doesn't work.

You should try to come up with a less explicit way of saying that...but theres exceptions for that soccer thing working I gues

What's wrong with saying, "Just because I want your number doesn't mean we're going to go out on a date....wow...slow down!!" ?

I usually say somethin like this
 
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The best response is something i read on textsfromlastnight.com.

She says "Sorry i have a boyfriend."
You say, "I have a gold fish."
She says, "What?" (or something along those lines)
You say, "I thought we were talking about sh!t that doesn't matter."
 
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Oxide said:
I've used:

"Just because your boyfriend is the goalie for the hockey team, doesn't mean he can save this one" as I confidently walked towards her with my raging hard on.
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Hahahaha :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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