"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just because you have a goalie doesn't mean I cant score

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"Just because you have a goalie doesn't mean I cant score"

something a buddy of mine heard or came up with. tell me if i'm repeating something from here btw.

response to Girl: "I have a bf" types of or related lines.

Good, Bad, field test worthy?

I haven't had the opportunity to use it yet but ill give it a try when I have the opportunity.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never use canned lines. Not only that, but you dont want to make it obvious to the girl that you're trying to get in her pants.
 
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I've used:

"Just because your boyfriend is the goalie for the hockey team, doesn't mean he can save this one" as I confidently walked towards her with my raging hard on.
 
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The line is good in terms of your mindset - but bad to actually say to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls use the "I have a boyfriend" line as a defense mechanism. A lot of times they won't even have one. I've been the "boyfriend" to my lady friends from time to time when they were getting hit on by creepy guys.
 
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The best response: That's fine, I have a girlfriend, so what's your point?
 
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thecurtainfalls said:
The line is good in terms of your mindset - but bad to actually say to her.
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Thecurtainfalls is right on the money. Saying "I'm going to **** you and theres nothing you can do about it," or some stupid ****y bullsh*t like that will not impress a girl....unless she's a total slvt or something....that line is pretty stupid, and as said above canned stuff usually doesn't work.

You should try to come up with a less explicit way of saying that...but theres exceptions for that soccer thing working I gues

What's wrong with saying, "Just because I want your number doesn't mean we're going to go out on a date....wow...slow down!!" ?

I usually say somethin like this
 
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The best response is something i read on textsfromlastnight.com.

She says "Sorry i have a boyfriend."
You say, "I have a gold fish."
She says, "What?" (or something along those lines)
You say, "I thought we were talking about sh!t that doesn't matter."
 
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Oxide said:
I've used:

"Just because your boyfriend is the goalie for the hockey team, doesn't mean he can save this one" as I confidently walked towards her with my raging hard on.
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Hahahaha :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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