Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Just because it's AM doesn't mean it's morning

The Forms

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OK, time for a rant:

I hate people who think it's OK to say "good morning" to you if they see you at any time after midnight.

One am is not morning, 2 o clock is not morning. It's not morning until the sun rises. Until then, I don't care if it's past midnight, it's still night. Just because we've technically moved on to the next day doesn't mean it has also magically become MORNING of the next day.

This is something you typically run into at late night diners and or similiar places. Places where the workers have to work strange hours. So they remind you that it's so late and you're still out that it's now morning (which it is not).

These people seem to think that anything from 12 am to noon is morning. However, that's just as stupid as saying "good afternoon" to someone at 11 o clock at night. That doesn't work. Yes, it is technically "after noon," but we have other words to denote times other than "morning" and "afternoon."

For instance, we have evening, and night time also. It's best to match up these words with what best describes what phase of the day we are currently in.

So if you're one of those people who thinks it's OK to say "good morning" at 3 am, stop it. It's not morning yet. Once the sun comes up it's morning. Until then it's still night.

The only exception to this rule is if morning for you happens to be before the sun comes up (like people who start work at 5 AM. These people can say that 4 am is morning. But only to each other. And never to me.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deep Dish

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As someone who is rather nocturnal, I agree that night is "night" until the sky begins to lighten up. However, on that note, lighten up, dude.
 

Ace of Flames

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I only ever say this as a joke.

Anyway, I'm usually up all throughout the "morning", from 12am on.

Its either when you wake up, or when the sun comes up. Whichever comes first. One of those conditions must be met before its safe to say "Good Morning!". Otherwise, the OP might tear your face off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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smooth guy

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DevanE said:
My question still remain's unanswered...DID you nut on her face or not...?:mad:
when was the last you got laid? :p
 

kdnash82

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So, if it's after midnight, what do you say? It's not evening anymore, definately not the afternoon, even though techically speaking anything after 12pm could be considered afternoon.

Would I say good night to people that I see after midnight, even though I'm not going to bed or bidding them farewell, as in good bye?

And even after all the debate has been done.... WHO REALLY GIVES A FU*CK!!!???

Tool
 

smooth guy

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DevanE said:
Ask your mother she'll tell you...my son. :whistle:
My mother is dead f*ck ass.

So how about you use a more original line next time. Oh I'm sorry did I offend you again?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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smooth guy

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Ace of Flames said:
So like, 16 years ago?
:crackup:

Self Owned by canned material.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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I'll be honest i havent got laid since monday.


Anyways I've never heard anyone ever say good morning and im nocturnal also. Hmm strange..
 
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