"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just Be cool!

frivolousz21

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I know its written somewhere on here to Just be cool.


think about this..how many times have you been around a guy you just met..and ur telling everyone around you like..damn this guy is cool.

how did that make you feel to be around him? it felt great, you wanted to drink a beer, go get chicks, hangout whatever..but this was because he was cool, confident..ect.


when you are cool..you get this chicks..this same cool guy you liked probably had pyssy fighting for him.

just remember to be "cooler" than her..and she will look at you the same..and want to be around you!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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everybody has their own wersion of cool. these days ist's wearing your pants half way down your ass, dressed like a getho white boy, acting like a rapstar.............and none of that is cool, IT'S FAKE. chicks DON'T LIKE FAKE.

I almost wana say cool is not the word, but I can't think of a substitute.
 

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yea I agree but you see what Im saying.....I dont mean that kind of cool..as in Pop ****...but there is something bout certain people..maybe its just CHARISMA..but certian people have it..and its universal..for men and women.

obviously you talk to women diff but still.

I know im not one of those people yet..but I have a grasp on it.
 
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