"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just Be cool!

frivolousz21

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I know its written somewhere on here to Just be cool.


think about this..how many times have you been around a guy you just met..and ur telling everyone around you like..damn this guy is cool.

how did that make you feel to be around him? it felt great, you wanted to drink a beer, go get chicks, hangout whatever..but this was because he was cool, confident..ect.


when you are cool..you get this chicks..this same cool guy you liked probably had pyssy fighting for him.

just remember to be "cooler" than her..and she will look at you the same..and want to be around you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spider_007

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everybody has their own wersion of cool. these days ist's wearing your pants half way down your ass, dressed like a getho white boy, acting like a rapstar.............and none of that is cool, IT'S FAKE. chicks DON'T LIKE FAKE.

I almost wana say cool is not the word, but I can't think of a substitute.
 

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yea I agree but you see what Im saying.....I dont mean that kind of cool..as in Pop ****...but there is something bout certain people..maybe its just CHARISMA..but certian people have it..and its universal..for men and women.

obviously you talk to women diff but still.

I know im not one of those people yet..but I have a grasp on it.
 
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