"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Just Be cool!

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
I know its written somewhere on here to Just be cool.


think about this..how many times have you been around a guy you just met..and ur telling everyone around you like..damn this guy is cool.

how did that make you feel to be around him? it felt great, you wanted to drink a beer, go get chicks, hangout whatever..but this was because he was cool, confident..ect.


when you are cool..you get this chicks..this same cool guy you liked probably had pyssy fighting for him.

just remember to be "cooler" than her..and she will look at you the same..and want to be around you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

spider_007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2005
Messages
3,072
Reaction score
16
Location
ontario
everybody has their own wersion of cool. these days ist's wearing your pants half way down your ass, dressed like a getho white boy, acting like a rapstar.............and none of that is cool, IT'S FAKE. chicks DON'T LIKE FAKE.

I almost wana say cool is not the word, but I can't think of a substitute.
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
yea I agree but you see what Im saying.....I dont mean that kind of cool..as in Pop ****...but there is something bout certain people..maybe its just CHARISMA..but certian people have it..and its universal..for men and women.

obviously you talk to women diff but still.

I know im not one of those people yet..but I have a grasp on it.
 
Top