"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just Be An ******* For A Moment

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Seriously, try it once, online or in person. Do it with someone expendable i.e you don't talk to them much or are not interested in getting inside them. Then you will realise afterwards that winding them up a bit doesn't actually make you feel bad at all, obviously don't cross a line and go personal, but just wind them up. Not looking for positive or negative responses, just to make you realise that you don't feel as much refret as you expected to. i.e

http://i34.tinypic.com/24awm0o.jpg

I may have went overboard a tiny bit but it made me realise two things

1. Kings of Leon diehards are ****tards

2. You will feel more empowered afterwards that for once you didn't keep your mouth shut



Reading back this doesn't make a lot of sense to me, so hopefully people can take whatever positive they can from this
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOL thats fkin funny.. HADOUKEN!

Honestly Im not an azzhole just to be an azzhole because sometimes I can be a real azzhole, period. But I can see how those who need to tune off their "nice guyness" a bit should step out and see what it feels like to not give a fuk an be a d1ck. In the end they will see being a d1ck for the sake of being a d1ck is not a good thing and will find a positive balance, ie be nice to everyones who's nice to you but be a MAJOR azzhole to those who deserve that treatment.
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Julian said:
LOL thats fkin funny.. HADOUKEN!

ie be nice to everyones who's nice to you but be a MAJOR azzhole to those who deserve that treatment.
Like a kings of leon fan

lul
 

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Meh, there's a difference between standing your ground on something you really believe in and just being a pain in the ass for the hell of it. Like I told a racist black lady the other day that her skin color didn't make her special. She didn't like that too much, but I felt fantastic about it afterward.

That chat log kind of reminded me of the cynical elitist types that used to sit around in yahoo music chat all the time and bash everything popular.
 
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