"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just Be An ******* For A Moment

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Seriously, try it once, online or in person. Do it with someone expendable i.e you don't talk to them much or are not interested in getting inside them. Then you will realise afterwards that winding them up a bit doesn't actually make you feel bad at all, obviously don't cross a line and go personal, but just wind them up. Not looking for positive or negative responses, just to make you realise that you don't feel as much refret as you expected to. i.e

http://i34.tinypic.com/24awm0o.jpg

I may have went overboard a tiny bit but it made me realise two things

1. Kings of Leon diehards are ****tards

2. You will feel more empowered afterwards that for once you didn't keep your mouth shut



Reading back this doesn't make a lot of sense to me, so hopefully people can take whatever positive they can from this
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Julian

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LOL thats fkin funny.. HADOUKEN!

Honestly Im not an azzhole just to be an azzhole because sometimes I can be a real azzhole, period. But I can see how those who need to tune off their "nice guyness" a bit should step out and see what it feels like to not give a fuk an be a d1ck. In the end they will see being a d1ck for the sake of being a d1ck is not a good thing and will find a positive balance, ie be nice to everyones who's nice to you but be a MAJOR azzhole to those who deserve that treatment.
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Julian said:
LOL thats fkin funny.. HADOUKEN!

ie be nice to everyones who's nice to you but be a MAJOR azzhole to those who deserve that treatment.
Like a kings of leon fan

lul
 

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Meh, there's a difference between standing your ground on something you really believe in and just being a pain in the ass for the hell of it. Like I told a racist black lady the other day that her skin color didn't make her special. She didn't like that too much, but I felt fantastic about it afterward.

That chat log kind of reminded me of the cynical elitist types that used to sit around in yahoo music chat all the time and bash everything popular.
 
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