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just asking your opinion about this chick

KinkyMan

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it seems like i have returned to BAFC ways with this girl

yea so im at the point now that with her i dont want a relationship, but i sill want sex ....

-she has clearly stated that she is not interested, but wants to stay friends to find out ... but we still make out big time when we hang out

-uses tons of neg-hits, undependability on me, which sometimes i doubt my ego on ..

-introverted, logical, and most likely really a virgin



so my idea was to basically propisition her telling her that ->
"if we had sex ...
it would not mean that we are together, or mean nothing, i wouldnt stop talking to you (something she says she is worried about repeatedly), and i wouldnt tell anyone"

as it stands she wont let me do anything but feel under her clothes




-yea im attention whoring to you guys, but man am i out of it right now-


thx for responses, no matter how critical, haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MercutioTHEGREAT

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dude your Djing caught in a master's dilemma

it's easy this is what i would probably do

1.try while under her clothes fingering her

2.be smooth and i might ask her how horny are you right now? if she says really horny while making out-you need to go downtown and i mean MUFFDIVING!!


all of this opens her sexually any guy who can eat a girl out right once 95% chances your going to get laid if you continue....you have to progress her yourself..make her interested....Damn i can't wait till next summer it's this HB10 i wanna FvCk SOOO BAD!!! man well you better get that poontang because if it was me i wouldn't be on this site right now i would be trying to get in thoughs legs lolz good luck.
 

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thx for the reply



yea ive tried that, and she is very consistent about not letting me go any farther, it appears the only way is to be a jerk or possibly use her dumb logic, but the latter seems rather silly, but if it would work it certainly would be the most heathy way ......

oh my, see how bafc im acting! im worried about her feelings
 

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You are talking to her about sex... as if it was a bad, unatural thing?

The first step in having sex with ANYONE is allowing them the comfort that sex is a free and beautiful thing that everyone should experience. "I wont tell anyone" isnt the way you want to play this.

Second, you need to get her aroused. Learn to kiss and hold a woman... touch her/arouse her untill she NEEDS sex.

And there is nothing wrong with worrying about her feelings. If you were truely in tune with hre feelings as well as your own you probably wouldnt be asking this quetion right now, youd be ****ing her.
 

Inquire

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u gotta remember, not every chick will like you. my opinion is dont waste your time with a losing battle. move onto the next.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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