"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just another question.

Adrian

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When a girl hugs you how am I suppossed to look at it. Is it only meant to be a friendly thing or what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Consider me as you wish but it's only a question.
 

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It doesn't mean a thing.
 

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Usually hugs are bad news - she just wants to be friends

Of all the girls I've hooked up with, I only had one hug me before kissing or hand holding occured. However, right after we hugged, I kissed her

the ones that I just got hugs from turned out to not be interested sexually
 

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that reminds me, two years ago i think. a girl that really digged me. i was AFC back then. shy low self esteem, etc. we was out the front her house, i ask her for a hug. she hugs me and says: "just a hug? why not a kiss?"

so of course we went at it in the front yard like a couple of rabbits on viagra. you can figure out the rest ;)

to answer your question. no, hugs don't mean anything. girls are just friendly that way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dammit........ Anyway on turning back from "just bieng friends"?
 

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do what the girl did to me.

"only a hug? why not a kiss?"

you have to show the girl you're more interested than just a friend. you have to let her know, if you just let her hug you all the time and talk with her, she'll stick you on that friends list and bye bye you go. it's all about your attitude towards the girl.
 
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