"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just another question.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Evil-Rom
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DJmonster
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Of all the girls I've hooked up with, I only had one hug me before kissing or hand holding occured. However, right after we hugged, I kissed her
the ones that I just got hugs from turned out to not be interested sexually
Tails
Senior Don Juan
so of course we went at it in the front yard like a couple of rabbits on viagra. you can figure out the rest
to answer your question. no, hugs don't mean anything. girls are just friendly that way.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
"only a hug? why not a kiss?"
you have to show the girl you're more interested than just a friend. you have to let her know, if you just let her hug you all the time and talk with her, she'll stick you on that friends list and bye bye you go. it's all about your attitude towards the girl.