"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just another question.
- Thread starter Adrian
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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DJmonster
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Of all the girls I've hooked up with, I only had one hug me before kissing or hand holding occured. However, right after we hugged, I kissed her
the ones that I just got hugs from turned out to not be interested sexually
Tails
Senior Don Juan
so of course we went at it in the front yard like a couple of rabbits on viagra. you can figure out the rest
to answer your question. no, hugs don't mean anything. girls are just friendly that way.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
"only a hug? why not a kiss?"
you have to show the girl you're more interested than just a friend. you have to let her know, if you just let her hug you all the time and talk with her, she'll stick you on that friends list and bye bye you go. it's all about your attitude towards the girl.