"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just an observation: This forum is like an elite brotherhood

Fatal Jay

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Man just wanted to say we are likea dope society,like a war council brotherhood or something.

I see that women are so good at playing games in relationships becuase they get together and discuss, and that's exactly what we have here, in the outside world guys don't really sit down and discuss the in's and out's of this game, that's why most guys fail, but I know on my end that being on this board has made me colder at the DJ craft, I lurked on this board for the longest before I joined.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spiegel549

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Completely agree :up:

Learned and STILL learning a ton of game from this website. I use to be on sites were women can offer advice too...seriously worst mistake ever.

I love how this site is nothing but MEN who are experienced and or are open to guidance so they can be successful as a DJ.
 

VladPatton

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This forum is mad useful. The guys' stories are remarkable, the advice is helpful, and no one bashes unless it is necessary. If you're a puṣṣy and you run away from the crude advice then you are beyond this forum's capabilities for help. If you stick around you'll see the light.

When I tell some of the guys I know about what we talk on here they look at me like I'm a fųcking freak. Then I realize..oh..yeah...they don't get it yet.

I'm happy I found this place.
 

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The other day the girl I am dating texted me asking whether I prefer her to have straight or curly hair. Knowing that she is leaning toward curly I told her straight (which is in fact what I prefer). Later, when I saw her in person, she said that was a test and I wasn't supposed to say straight so I failed. My response? A nonchalant "Hmm, that's interesting since I don't take tests nor do I play games..." Then I turned away from her and went about my business.

The next day her hair was very, very straight, just how I like it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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