"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just an observation: This forum is like an elite brotherhood

Fatal Jay

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Man just wanted to say we are likea dope society,like a war council brotherhood or something.

I see that women are so good at playing games in relationships becuase they get together and discuss, and that's exactly what we have here, in the outside world guys don't really sit down and discuss the in's and out's of this game, that's why most guys fail, but I know on my end that being on this board has made me colder at the DJ craft, I lurked on this board for the longest before I joined.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spiegel549

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Completely agree :up:

Learned and STILL learning a ton of game from this website. I use to be on sites were women can offer advice too...seriously worst mistake ever.

I love how this site is nothing but MEN who are experienced and or are open to guidance so they can be successful as a DJ.
 

VladPatton

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This forum is mad useful. The guys' stories are remarkable, the advice is helpful, and no one bashes unless it is necessary. If you're a puṣṣy and you run away from the crude advice then you are beyond this forum's capabilities for help. If you stick around you'll see the light.

When I tell some of the guys I know about what we talk on here they look at me like I'm a fųcking freak. Then I realize..oh..yeah...they don't get it yet.

I'm happy I found this place.
 

DonJuanabe

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The other day the girl I am dating texted me asking whether I prefer her to have straight or curly hair. Knowing that she is leaning toward curly I told her straight (which is in fact what I prefer). Later, when I saw her in person, she said that was a test and I wasn't supposed to say straight so I failed. My response? A nonchalant "Hmm, that's interesting since I don't take tests nor do I play games..." Then I turned away from her and went about my business.

The next day her hair was very, very straight, just how I like it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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