I was originally going to post this as a response to another thread here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90059, but decided it would be better served to make this as a new post.
"Being a DJ alone will never give you the toolset to meet any woman in any situation.
Carefully reread the posts by the greatest "DJs" on this site and you'll see this to be true.
Pook never could pick up women at clubs. He says this himself.
if by P_S you mean Player_Supreme ... wow, I really hope you're not taking anything he says to be golden. He's posted pics of the women he dates, and well ... since I can't say anything nice about how they look, I won't say anything at all.
I'm just about done with this site. The message boards are total crap with ridiculous questions and comments, I'm not learning anything new, the DJ Bible has MASSIVE holes in it. As it stands right now, the DJ Bible is a tool to help put you on the path to changing your mindset; it is not a toolbox that directly helps you in meeting women.
So much of the advice in the DJ Bible stems from low self-esteem. Every post about "waiting X number of days to call" and every post about NEXTing a girl is rooted in low self esteem. They are defense mechanisms to guard against getting hurt.
The other thing I don't like about this site is the incredible focus on the superficial aspects of improving yourself. There's so much advice on here to work out and get buff ... changing how you look just to attract women is about as AFC as it gets. If being a DJ is the greatest method out there when it comes to attracting women, then HOW COME OTHER METHODS ARE BEING USED SUCCESSFULLY BY UGLY GUYS? Style isn't handsome. David D isn't that good looking. One of the guy's on David D's interview CD's is 3' tall and confined to a wheelchair. And yet all these guys are having massive success with model quality women.
I'll post a thread soon with what I've learned in the past year. Nearly none of it was learned directly from this site.
The main reason though, is that this whole idea of being a DJ is nonsense. A DJ is really just another term for saying "a perfectly evolved man".
There is no such thing as perfection. If you keep waiting to be perfect before you have success with women, you'll be waiting forever. Learn from those who came from a place where they were having NO success with women. These are the people you can learn the most from.
This is why I put 400 times more stock in anything I read or hear from Style (Neil Strauss) than someone like Pook. The former came from having no success with women, and built himself up into being able to pick up any woman in any situation. The latter, was already having success with women prior to "becoming a DJ"; thats why I put less faith in Pook's advice than Style's.]
Improving yourself, and improving your ability to meet and attract women, ARE TWO DIFFERENT ENDEAVORS.
Yes, there is some overlap; for example, if you improve yourself by making 10 million dollars, you will increase your attractiveness with women.
But I and anyone reading this can think of tons of ways you can improve who you are as a person, that will do NOTHING when it comes to helping you attract women.
This site suffers from confusion; its focus isn't quite on self-improvement fully, and isn't quite on getting women fully, and as a result, the advice people give, and the focus of the DJ Bible, suffers from giving out two different messages.
To have success in any undertaking, your goal must be clear. The goal on this site, isn't clear, its muddled. Is this site for learning how to get girls, or is this site for self-improvement?
Believe it or not, they aren't the same goal.
peace"
"Being a DJ alone will never give you the toolset to meet any woman in any situation.
Carefully reread the posts by the greatest "DJs" on this site and you'll see this to be true.
Pook never could pick up women at clubs. He says this himself.
if by P_S you mean Player_Supreme ... wow, I really hope you're not taking anything he says to be golden. He's posted pics of the women he dates, and well ... since I can't say anything nice about how they look, I won't say anything at all.
I'm just about done with this site. The message boards are total crap with ridiculous questions and comments, I'm not learning anything new, the DJ Bible has MASSIVE holes in it. As it stands right now, the DJ Bible is a tool to help put you on the path to changing your mindset; it is not a toolbox that directly helps you in meeting women.
So much of the advice in the DJ Bible stems from low self-esteem. Every post about "waiting X number of days to call" and every post about NEXTing a girl is rooted in low self esteem. They are defense mechanisms to guard against getting hurt.
The other thing I don't like about this site is the incredible focus on the superficial aspects of improving yourself. There's so much advice on here to work out and get buff ... changing how you look just to attract women is about as AFC as it gets. If being a DJ is the greatest method out there when it comes to attracting women, then HOW COME OTHER METHODS ARE BEING USED SUCCESSFULLY BY UGLY GUYS? Style isn't handsome. David D isn't that good looking. One of the guy's on David D's interview CD's is 3' tall and confined to a wheelchair. And yet all these guys are having massive success with model quality women.
I'll post a thread soon with what I've learned in the past year. Nearly none of it was learned directly from this site.
The main reason though, is that this whole idea of being a DJ is nonsense. A DJ is really just another term for saying "a perfectly evolved man".
There is no such thing as perfection. If you keep waiting to be perfect before you have success with women, you'll be waiting forever. Learn from those who came from a place where they were having NO success with women. These are the people you can learn the most from.
This is why I put 400 times more stock in anything I read or hear from Style (Neil Strauss) than someone like Pook. The former came from having no success with women, and built himself up into being able to pick up any woman in any situation. The latter, was already having success with women prior to "becoming a DJ"; thats why I put less faith in Pook's advice than Style's.]
Improving yourself, and improving your ability to meet and attract women, ARE TWO DIFFERENT ENDEAVORS.
Yes, there is some overlap; for example, if you improve yourself by making 10 million dollars, you will increase your attractiveness with women.
But I and anyone reading this can think of tons of ways you can improve who you are as a person, that will do NOTHING when it comes to helping you attract women.
This site suffers from confusion; its focus isn't quite on self-improvement fully, and isn't quite on getting women fully, and as a result, the advice people give, and the focus of the DJ Bible, suffers from giving out two different messages.
To have success in any undertaking, your goal must be clear. The goal on this site, isn't clear, its muddled. Is this site for learning how to get girls, or is this site for self-improvement?
Believe it or not, they aren't the same goal.
peace"
