"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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white cloud 8

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Hi,

[Please don't flame me for asking this, I am merely just asking for some reconfirmation on the subject]

Whenever I am downtown walking around, doing some shopping or whatever, as I walk by the more attractive girls (crossing paths) I would rank them HB 8.0/8.5, and she would make eye contact with me and sometimes I would look away (I DON'T KNOW WHY I DO THAT?) and then look back and she would eyeing me up and down (looks like she is checking out my shoes and glances up from there with a slight grin). This happens occasionally from time to time, I'm just wondering if that would be considered something to pursue or would open up to a conversation, something? I don't know if it really means anything, it tends to happen when I'm not even expecting it or not paying attention until it's sort of obvious in a way. Some advice please?

~thanx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tactic

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you're scared to approach, read the DJ bible like everyone else would say or experience!
 
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I would have to see what you look like to tell whether the girl is grinning cause you look good or she's actually wondering " what the hell is he wearing?" LOL I'm just playing. Yes, it's something your pursie and do not worry about that whole looking away thing, girls actually like that sometimes, think about it we are just like guys, we like the challenge...
 
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im thinking these girls probably like you.

I wish girls would do that to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your hair could use some hair products/styling (right expression?!). No criticism, it'd just look better (unless you already do it anyways)
 
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