"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just a quick reminder

white cloud 8

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Hi,

[Please don't flame me for asking this, I am merely just asking for some reconfirmation on the subject]

Whenever I am downtown walking around, doing some shopping or whatever, as I walk by the more attractive girls (crossing paths) I would rank them HB 8.0/8.5, and she would make eye contact with me and sometimes I would look away (I DON'T KNOW WHY I DO THAT?) and then look back and she would eyeing me up and down (looks like she is checking out my shoes and glances up from there with a slight grin). This happens occasionally from time to time, I'm just wondering if that would be considered something to pursue or would open up to a conversation, something? I don't know if it really means anything, it tends to happen when I'm not even expecting it or not paying attention until it's sort of obvious in a way. Some advice please?

~thanx
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tactic

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you're scared to approach, read the DJ bible like everyone else would say or experience!
 

HeartlessBtch

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I would have to see what you look like to tell whether the girl is grinning cause you look good or she's actually wondering " what the hell is he wearing?" LOL I'm just playing. Yes, it's something your pursie and do not worry about that whole looking away thing, girls actually like that sometimes, think about it we are just like guys, we like the challenge...
 

avrilishot

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im thinking these girls probably like you.

I wish girls would do that to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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madgame

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Your hair could use some hair products/styling (right expression?!). No criticism, it'd just look better (unless you already do it anyways)
 
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