“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just a Quick Question

Jeff D

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I've asked several friends of mine for advice, but sadly, they've been no help as none of them would have the courage to spontaneously approach a girl they have no connection with. Connections such as mutual classes, friends, etc.

So my school day is divided into 8 periods, and after second period, I see this one girl who seems to catch my attention. She is beautiful, but I'm not sure on how to approach her. Only time I ever see her is when I'm walking from second to third period, and sometimes third to fourth. My friend's older brother told me to go up to her and ask "hey did you happen to drop this pen?", which without question, failed because she happened to pay no mind to me and answer with the most bland "no" I have ever heard. I'm not even sure if she looked at me. So the point of the initiation of this thread is to get advice on how to randomly approach a girl, and succeed.

Things you should know

- I added her on facebook, but she hasn't accepted my friend request for whatever reason.
- I'm a grade level above her's.
- I'm an introvert with those who seem to be introverted, due to the fact that they may seem to make things awkward, and an extrovert with those who seem to be extroverted.
- I'm not out of shape nor am I ugly. At least I'm not told I am. Nor am I a narcissist.
- It's Valentine's Day. Go figure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LearningSlowly

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Well, uh, I don't really know what she thinks of you. If she already thinks badly of you, for whatever reason, then you really don't have a chance.

Next time you see her, you should touch her arm (people can't ignore physical contact) and say, "Excuse me, I keep seeing you around but I don't know your name. I'm Jeff."

She'll tell you, you say nice to meet you and leave. Then say hi every time you see her, and if possible get into a conversation. She probably already knows your name if you added her on facebook, and she may suspect that you know hers, but she definitely won't say that.
 

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Personality is not permanent, it's dynamic. I hate how everyone treats it like something permanent. You're not born an introvert. Just change it.
 

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I don't know about where you live, but where I live excuse me is for trying to get past people or selling them something they don't want. We use the ultra casual "Hey."

Chances are she'll ignore you again, unless you touch her, so call it out. Talk loud too.
 

AlexLefty

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Jack Wealthy said:
I don't know about where you live, but where I live excuse me is for trying to get past people or selling them something they don't want. We use the ultra casual "Hey."

Chances are she'll ignore you again, unless you touch her, so call it out. Talk loud too.
Where do you live?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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