"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just a question of social circles.

Miguel

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Hey, just testing out to see if I’m crazy or not… but I’m really starting too notice something about people on a whole, it’s rather bizarre and makes me feel a little annoyed and almost come to point of laughing at the same time. It’s nerds, geeks, and people who are really on the lower end of the social totem pole. Now here me out here… Now the thing was back in high school I found that I only fit in with them. In my first high school, prior to me switching schools, I found that basically in only fit in with the geeks and nerds. It was a small town school and there weren’t really any people who would accept a drama guy like me among the cool cliques. (Think jocks for the most part.) Now the thing is I’ve been badly back stabbed and hurt by these people not once, not twice, but three times… and still I haven’t been taking the hint. I don’t seem to get the message that these people seem to have a bone to pick with the world.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking about nerds mostly… I’m talking mostly about the socially low-end ones. You’ve got your cool rockers, and your awesome reformed dorks… but then you’ve got the wanna – be emos, (they refuse to be happy, and wallow in self pity, and the second you say… Yah I’m feeling bummed out too, they act evil. Like your taking their thunder.) and your high school losers (not that their all bad, but man they want to f-up anyone who they view as higher then them on the social order.) It’s just that I’ve noticed that a lot of these people want to really be jerks at every opportunity. I mean, don’t get me wrong, some times you do find some real gems. But overall I’m getting real sick of the type of crap that these people have pulled forever.

Now here’s the thing, I’m meeting people, so I’m not to stressed out about social groups. But what I want to ask is, who do you guys think would make the best friends. I feel I’m socially competent enough to connect with people, I just want to know who do you guys feel are most likely not to be bastards?

(Cause, I just told like 2 people to f-off today, and both were emo high school losers. Soooo, I’m VERY motivated not to try to meet anymore of these people, and I want to make it a habit of meeting the best people I can!)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Effington

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Umm...there is so much wrong with this post that I wouldn't even know where to begin with you.
 

ItsOnNow

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it's all the bvitches fault. Blame them,for abusing the power of the pvssy. You will get what I mean someday...
 
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