"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just a question of social circles.

Miguel

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Hey, just testing out to see if I’m crazy or not… but I’m really starting too notice something about people on a whole, it’s rather bizarre and makes me feel a little annoyed and almost come to point of laughing at the same time. It’s nerds, geeks, and people who are really on the lower end of the social totem pole. Now here me out here… Now the thing was back in high school I found that I only fit in with them. In my first high school, prior to me switching schools, I found that basically in only fit in with the geeks and nerds. It was a small town school and there weren’t really any people who would accept a drama guy like me among the cool cliques. (Think jocks for the most part.) Now the thing is I’ve been badly back stabbed and hurt by these people not once, not twice, but three times… and still I haven’t been taking the hint. I don’t seem to get the message that these people seem to have a bone to pick with the world.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking about nerds mostly… I’m talking mostly about the socially low-end ones. You’ve got your cool rockers, and your awesome reformed dorks… but then you’ve got the wanna – be emos, (they refuse to be happy, and wallow in self pity, and the second you say… Yah I’m feeling bummed out too, they act evil. Like your taking their thunder.) and your high school losers (not that their all bad, but man they want to f-up anyone who they view as higher then them on the social order.) It’s just that I’ve noticed that a lot of these people want to really be jerks at every opportunity. I mean, don’t get me wrong, some times you do find some real gems. But overall I’m getting real sick of the type of crap that these people have pulled forever.

Now here’s the thing, I’m meeting people, so I’m not to stressed out about social groups. But what I want to ask is, who do you guys think would make the best friends. I feel I’m socially competent enough to connect with people, I just want to know who do you guys feel are most likely not to be bastards?

(Cause, I just told like 2 people to f-off today, and both were emo high school losers. Soooo, I’m VERY motivated not to try to meet anymore of these people, and I want to make it a habit of meeting the best people I can!)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Effington

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Umm...there is so much wrong with this post that I wouldn't even know where to begin with you.
 

ItsOnNow

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it's all the bvitches fault. Blame them,for abusing the power of the pvssy. You will get what I mean someday...
 
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