"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just a positive story...

DoubleD

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Been seeing a lot of negativity on here lately.. problems, people that are hurt etc. etc... so I thought i'd share a postivive field report.

I was @ the supermarket a week ago when I saw this cutey out of the corner of my eye. I approached her isle.. opened her with a lame (what would you pick) type opener and started chatting from there. Anyway.. she's a tall, blond blue eyed 22y/o.. I number close her after finding out she lives in my area.

I invite her out a few days later as a *fashion consultant* (I was going shopping in town and just told her to come along.) Was good fun and tension was building with her.. touching her, generally busting, joking but also creating rapport.

At the end of the day... we are wrapping up and I kiss close which she is all happy about...cmon its just a kiss.

I catch up with her again last night.. she is a little awkward and shy (which I find cute).. I kiss her some more.. we go out. She is all like.. i'm not an easy girl.. I haven't been with a man in a while.. etc etc. I am relaxed and just answering exactly how I feel.. almost ignoring her comments *but not being a prick* and then a few hours later she is back up in my aparment and its game over. :D

And not only that.. she's totally loving it.. saying **** that I usually hear in movies. Was a great ego rub.. even though as I have said many times.. DROP the EGO!

Now I am reporting this coming from a place where a few years ago i couldn't have even immagined having met and bedded a hottie from a supermarket meeting like this. Keep it all going! There is a light at the end of the tunnle.. and frankly i have no idea where the tunnle ends!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yul

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congrats to you mate !
That's what life is all about.

I hope you two will both enjoy yourselves!
 

Phrase

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Well done, I hope that I can have these kind of results soon. Good to know that good things can come from that hottie u see at the market.
 

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NICE!
 
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