"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DoubleD

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Been seeing a lot of negativity on here lately.. problems, people that are hurt etc. etc... so I thought i'd share a postivive field report.

I was @ the supermarket a week ago when I saw this cutey out of the corner of my eye. I approached her isle.. opened her with a lame (what would you pick) type opener and started chatting from there. Anyway.. she's a tall, blond blue eyed 22y/o.. I number close her after finding out she lives in my area.

I invite her out a few days later as a *fashion consultant* (I was going shopping in town and just told her to come along.) Was good fun and tension was building with her.. touching her, generally busting, joking but also creating rapport.

At the end of the day... we are wrapping up and I kiss close which she is all happy about...cmon its just a kiss.

I catch up with her again last night.. she is a little awkward and shy (which I find cute).. I kiss her some more.. we go out. She is all like.. i'm not an easy girl.. I haven't been with a man in a while.. etc etc. I am relaxed and just answering exactly how I feel.. almost ignoring her comments *but not being a prick* and then a few hours later she is back up in my aparment and its game over. :D

And not only that.. she's totally loving it.. saying **** that I usually hear in movies. Was a great ego rub.. even though as I have said many times.. DROP the EGO!

Now I am reporting this coming from a place where a few years ago i couldn't have even immagined having met and bedded a hottie from a supermarket meeting like this. Keep it all going! There is a light at the end of the tunnle.. and frankly i have no idea where the tunnle ends!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yul

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congrats to you mate !
That's what life is all about.

I hope you two will both enjoy yourselves!
 

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Well done, I hope that I can have these kind of results soon. Good to know that good things can come from that hottie u see at the market.
 

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NICE!
 
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