Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Just a little question?

Jizzee

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Hey there guys, just needing a bit advice about this! I was on facebook before, and this girl who I works with me (same store, different department, we've never really ever spoken though, basically im not attracted to her AT ALL) sends me a message. This is everything I sent to her, and what she sent to me. After the the conversation had finished, she changed her status to: .."is thinking to herself "you sad ****, get over yourself, just coz im someone else's!" C**K". I just want you guys to tell me if I do sound like a C**K, I dont think I do but honest opinions are appreciated :)

This is the entire convo:

Her: "whats with the sexual stuff? full of yourself arent u? hahahahahaha how r u anyway? xx"

Me: "ha well you've either got it or u aint ahahahah seriously tho folks, this girl just said i was so you know, im not gonna complain! im good, just watching match of the day, very rock n roll! hows u tho? what you been doing with urself? x"

Her: "ooooh whos the lady? ahaha yeh i know wht u mean either got it-*oints to herself* or you don't *points to computer* hahahaha.... ive just got in from work....i didnt know u were single?...."

Me: "what makes u think i was single? lol ha so you think u have 'it' do ya? hmmmmmmmmmmm hahaha"

her: " just thought u were for some reason? i dunno, i do have it, it something i was born with, i get told it every day hahaha....depends wht we mean by IT doesn't it???"

Me: "yeah, we prob mean different things. anyways, its man-time cos the football is on, no women allowed ;-) ha night night, see you at work x"

Her: "yeh so it is! it's jane and dave time now hahahaha speak soon enjoy xx"

a bit long-winded i know guys, but cheers in advance!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ligyron

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i dont think you were being a ****. I think you were being very afcish
 

KontrollerX

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I don't think you did anything wrong at all.

This chick just sounds like an overly self important cvnt to me way too full of herself to see through her own bullsh!t.

That or she was throwing out a joke.

You UKers are known to affectionately refer to eachother as c0cks and cvnts I've learned from getting to know so many of you on various forums and Xbox Live games lol.
 

Jizzee

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Like I say, Im not interested in her at all, just dont want any problems at work you know. I asked her who she was referring to, and she said her ex-boyfriend! Id still like to know what was AFC about the conversation? anyone? lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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