"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just a little question?

Jizzee

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Hey there guys, just needing a bit advice about this! I was on facebook before, and this girl who I works with me (same store, different department, we've never really ever spoken though, basically im not attracted to her AT ALL) sends me a message. This is everything I sent to her, and what she sent to me. After the the conversation had finished, she changed her status to: .."is thinking to herself "you sad ****, get over yourself, just coz im someone else's!" C**K". I just want you guys to tell me if I do sound like a C**K, I dont think I do but honest opinions are appreciated :)

This is the entire convo:

Her: "whats with the sexual stuff? full of yourself arent u? hahahahahaha how r u anyway? xx"

Me: "ha well you've either got it or u aint ahahahah seriously tho folks, this girl just said i was so you know, im not gonna complain! im good, just watching match of the day, very rock n roll! hows u tho? what you been doing with urself? x"

Her: "ooooh whos the lady? ahaha yeh i know wht u mean either got it-*oints to herself* or you don't *points to computer* hahahaha.... ive just got in from work....i didnt know u were single?...."

Me: "what makes u think i was single? lol ha so you think u have 'it' do ya? hmmmmmmmmmmm hahaha"

her: " just thought u were for some reason? i dunno, i do have it, it something i was born with, i get told it every day hahaha....depends wht we mean by IT doesn't it???"

Me: "yeah, we prob mean different things. anyways, its man-time cos the football is on, no women allowed ;-) ha night night, see you at work x"

Her: "yeh so it is! it's jane and dave time now hahahaha speak soon enjoy xx"

a bit long-winded i know guys, but cheers in advance!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ligyron

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i dont think you were being a ****. I think you were being very afcish
 

KontrollerX

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I don't think you did anything wrong at all.

This chick just sounds like an overly self important cvnt to me way too full of herself to see through her own bullsh!t.

That or she was throwing out a joke.

You UKers are known to affectionately refer to eachother as c0cks and cvnts I've learned from getting to know so many of you on various forums and Xbox Live games lol.
 

Jizzee

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Like I say, Im not interested in her at all, just dont want any problems at work you know. I asked her who she was referring to, and she said her ex-boyfriend! Id still like to know what was AFC about the conversation? anyone? lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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