Most of the time there are no issues when dating someone....i can usually read girls well......except this one. I met her in class, got the number, she started calling me at night, we went out. Everything was fine and this type of behavior has gone on for about a week and a half. Heres the catch i have not showed a tremendous amount of intrest because i know that will kill hers. But sometimes she acts more intrested than others....like from day to day....its almost like she is being a little manipulative at times to make me more aware of her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just a little confusing
- Thread starter Landon
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just make sure you don't put her on a pedestal, don't chase her and have other options.SuavePlaya
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Dude you can show interest, but don't show interest in a way as if she was the last female on earth... When she does show interest one of those days just lay your game down and if she isn't interested just leave. She either is feeling you or she is just a tease one way to find out.
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The stickler to most guys who aren't AFCs, just naturals or DJs, is that we can still be afraid of rejection depending on the situation. What I mean is, we KNOW we can get the girl, but we don't want to take action too early or at the wrong time as to ruin the moment and any chances with her.
We want to make sure we make the move at a time where she has a chance to feel our vibe in its true form. Places where this may be difficult, and may hinder your progress, may be a workplace, class setting, and so forth. You feel as if, if you were at a party or bar together, you'd be able to close her no problem. But getting her on that first date is the stickler cause you dont feel like you're in a position to make that sort of move.
We want to make sure we make the move at a time where she has a chance to feel our vibe in its true form. Places where this may be difficult, and may hinder your progress, may be a workplace, class setting, and so forth. You feel as if, if you were at a party or bar together, you'd be able to close her no problem. But getting her on that first date is the stickler cause you dont feel like you're in a position to make that sort of move.
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That is exactly the way it is.....I show intrest though, i didnt mean that i didnt....i just dont show obvious (im really into you) kinda intrest, because that will kill a vibe quick.....I know shes into me....i just think it may take a little more time before her defense mechanism goes down
That is exactly the way it is.....I show intrest though, i didnt mean that i didnt....i just dont show obvious (im really into you) kinda intrest, because that will kill a vibe quick.....I know shes into me....i just think it may take a little more time before her defense mechanism goes down
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MisterMcGee
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I'm facing that same situation. I feel like sometimes just doing something, like a statement of intent (arm-hugging her and looking into her eyes, etc. or even kissing her by surprise).. but it's possible that, even though I feel she's interested, she'll pull back and where do I go from there?
I'll end up doing something like that eventually, though, so we'll see soon. ahaha
I'll end up doing something like that eventually, though, so we'll see soon. ahaha