"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just a few suggestions for the noobs here :|

cactus3178

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Wow.

I haven't been here for awhile. I don't recognize some of the names here anymore, and I don't see any new posts from some of the best posters here. Don't get me wrong, there's still some bros here that know they're shit.

This is a place where you can come to learn and improve. If you put the effort in, the information here and in the DJB will change your life. Really. That might sound a bit dramatic, but it's the truth.

I came here the first time about a year and a half ago. I was a total shitbomb mess. I mean truly pathetic. Couldn't eat, sleep, total nervous wreck. NO self confidence to speak of, didn't think I could ever replace the girl that essentially broke my heart and left me an emotional waste. I whined to whoever would listen...got advice but didn't have the wherewithall (ability?) to use it.

It's been stated time and time again: If your new here - hell, if you just need a refresher, go read the DJB. Read it and read it again if you need to. Some nice gentlemen have made the fuer available in about every format known to man.

The thing that should stick in your mind is that this is not a place that will cure your problems. It is a place to learn how to cure your own problems. We can't physically drag your ass out to the club to pick up hotties. Or to the store, or the park, or to your buddy's party. You have to do it.

It's a process. You'll take steps ahead and then you'll slip. Count on it. But you'll learn. And eventually, you'll get to the point that all these techniques, and confidence, and CF, EC, whatever comes so damn naturally that you'll surprise yourself.

Just don't stop trying. Get your ass out, post some FRs and get some feedback. Do it again. Improve your game.

Believe you me, if the knowledge in these pages can change my life, it can do the same for you. I've got so much ass I don't even know what to do with it. I've got chicks practically begging to be my GF. I've had such great success because of the things I've learned here, and so can you.

Get the hell off the internet and go get something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amen
 

CLOONEY

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Good to see you back Cactus! Glad things are working out for you and you have finally got rid of that fat azz ex once and for all!
 

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Nice post cactus3178, should be stickied for a while;)


Laterz...
 
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