"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just a few suggestions for the noobs here :|

cactus3178

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Wow.

I haven't been here for awhile. I don't recognize some of the names here anymore, and I don't see any new posts from some of the best posters here. Don't get me wrong, there's still some bros here that know they're shit.

This is a place where you can come to learn and improve. If you put the effort in, the information here and in the DJB will change your life. Really. That might sound a bit dramatic, but it's the truth.

I came here the first time about a year and a half ago. I was a total shitbomb mess. I mean truly pathetic. Couldn't eat, sleep, total nervous wreck. NO self confidence to speak of, didn't think I could ever replace the girl that essentially broke my heart and left me an emotional waste. I whined to whoever would listen...got advice but didn't have the wherewithall (ability?) to use it.

It's been stated time and time again: If your new here - hell, if you just need a refresher, go read the DJB. Read it and read it again if you need to. Some nice gentlemen have made the fuer available in about every format known to man.

The thing that should stick in your mind is that this is not a place that will cure your problems. It is a place to learn how to cure your own problems. We can't physically drag your ass out to the club to pick up hotties. Or to the store, or the park, or to your buddy's party. You have to do it.

It's a process. You'll take steps ahead and then you'll slip. Count on it. But you'll learn. And eventually, you'll get to the point that all these techniques, and confidence, and CF, EC, whatever comes so damn naturally that you'll surprise yourself.

Just don't stop trying. Get your ass out, post some FRs and get some feedback. Do it again. Improve your game.

Believe you me, if the knowledge in these pages can change my life, it can do the same for you. I've got so much ass I don't even know what to do with it. I've got chicks practically begging to be my GF. I've had such great success because of the things I've learned here, and so can you.

Get the hell off the internet and go get something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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amen
 

CLOONEY

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Good to see you back Cactus! Glad things are working out for you and you have finally got rid of that fat azz ex once and for all!
 

Climax

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Nice post cactus3178, should be stickied for a while;)


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