"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just a confidence booster for all you guys

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JasonR

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Went out tonight for this girl's 21st birthday, and as she promised there were quite a few really pretty girls, maybe 5 above 8, and one girl who was out of this world.

I didnt really speak to any of them at any length of time, i was quite drunk and just enjoying myself (i dont like approaching when drunk)

But the end of the night came, and I decided to get the really hot girls phone number, well this is how it went.


She was stood in a group of about 6 friends, I walked up behind her, grabbed her arm, pulled her away from her friends while saying something like "i just need to have a word", or something to that effect, and after i had pulled her to this table i simply said, "Hi, my name is Jason, i'd like to get your phone number, what's your name?

she was very eager to get her phone out and give me the number, and her name.


EASY. CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHING.

I hadnt had enough time to get worried or say something wrong. I simply said the only thing we need to say "give me your number" (or something close) and then i left right away.


FORGET EVERYTHING EXCEPT CONFIDENCE.



Seriously, most girls are going to be very happy that ANYONE has approached them at all, letalone someone as great as yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^^ a good example of working on instincts!

thanks for that one JasonR :D
 
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Styyle!

why did she get HER phone out to give YOU her number? lol:p


Anyways... nice job;)
 
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when u already have approached the girl, u r almost sure that she's going to give you her pùssy... the problem is to approach her, since one ever thinks, well now it's not the moment, i'm waitin' another 10 minutes or somethin on the line.... but after u approached, u need to be above 6-7 and u r surely alright... nice work anyway, let us be informed how it'll go with her!
 
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