"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jus got into a relationship, Girls really do try to make us Jealous on purpose....

YoungSir4sho

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I jus got into anotha relationship wit this girl yesterday morning. She has alot of male friends so 45mins ago her good friend which is a guy called her. He then hung up since we was still both on the phone n she had him hangin on fo a good min. She then said yea he prolly mad cuz he b gettin jealous. Now wat i aint understandin is if its jus a friend y would he get jealous. N i kno already that most likely he likes her n stuff but da point is that she is still talkin to him right now n she siad that she would call me bac within 30mins so wat should i do whwen she calls bac???

I dont want to sound jealous but i have to let her kno that i cant allow this bs even if we jus started goin out feel me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Obsidian

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No, I don't feel you. The reason you are jealous is because you are still living your life like a wimp. She asks your permission to call someone else and you get mad about it? You shouldn't even be having long phone conversations with this chick anyway. Girlfriends talk on the phone to each other. ¿Comprendes?

Get off the damn phone and do something important with your life. Read the Book of Pook while you're at it.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Unlike u n others on here im very experienced on the phone. Phone game has always been my plus side ever since i was 16. Wit this girl i can talk to her ez fo at least 5-6hours ez lata at night.


Newayz this is wat i did when she called me bac. I acted like everythin was normal but then i said, im not hangin up no ni99a or any1 next time. Then i said imagined if my homegirl called me n den i hung up da phone wit my girl fo da home girl. then she said she understands n it wont happen again. U see thats how u do it b a man n tell ur girl how u feel but calmly YA DIG
 

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