"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Junior Prom this saturday AHHHH

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so i have a gorgeous awesome wonderful date to go with, but im a loser, i think she excepted because she doesn't know me to well, i dont drive, i cant dance

i dont drive and she doesn't either, i am deffinately not letting my parents pick us up she would think im the biggest loser ever, cause everyone else is driving there, i was thinking i could get one of my friends to take us.

i can kinda dance a little but not really at all,

i just want to get through the thing with the little popularity i have

i guess the main problem is the picking her up part and that she has to realize that i dont drive


how can i rebound and be a goods date?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you can get a limo if money isn't a problem or the best bet would be to have your friend drive you.
 
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The problem isn't that you can't drive, the REAL problem is that your always putting yourself down. STOP DOING THAT. What happens when you say negative about yourself is that you'll start believing it. Instead turn those negative thoughts into positive thoughts. At first it will feel weird but it'll work. You'll get more confidence in yourself. Just tell yourself that any girl would be lucky to be with you. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Tell yourself that you can make any girl feel wonderful inside. How does that make you feel. How would you carry yourself if you knew that. Eventually if you keep telling positive things to yourself you'll believe those thoughts. It's psychology. IF it were me I wouldn't mind going with parents. It doesn't matter as long as your confident in yourself. Actually I might even walk with her to the dance. Like this you'll both exercise, you'll have time to talk and WHO else has walked her to a dance. No one. That means your different and rare, like a diamond. As for dancing. The best tip is to 1) look for black guys, because they are usually the best dancers, or any good male dancer and just copy exactly what he does. 2) When your copying his moves, let yourself know that you can move you body exactly the same way as this other guy. Just have confidence in yourself, and let us know how it goes and if this tip helps.

P.S. If things don't go well with this girl, just let yourself know that it's her lost for leaving such a fun and rare guy like you.
 
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