"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Junior Prom this saturday AHHHH

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so i have a gorgeous awesome wonderful date to go with, but im a loser, i think she excepted because she doesn't know me to well, i dont drive, i cant dance

i dont drive and she doesn't either, i am deffinately not letting my parents pick us up she would think im the biggest loser ever, cause everyone else is driving there, i was thinking i could get one of my friends to take us.

i can kinda dance a little but not really at all,

i just want to get through the thing with the little popularity i have

i guess the main problem is the picking her up part and that she has to realize that i dont drive


how can i rebound and be a goods date?

help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you can get a limo if money isn't a problem or the best bet would be to have your friend drive you.
 
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The problem isn't that you can't drive, the REAL problem is that your always putting yourself down. STOP DOING THAT. What happens when you say negative about yourself is that you'll start believing it. Instead turn those negative thoughts into positive thoughts. At first it will feel weird but it'll work. You'll get more confidence in yourself. Just tell yourself that any girl would be lucky to be with you. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Tell yourself that you can make any girl feel wonderful inside. How does that make you feel. How would you carry yourself if you knew that. Eventually if you keep telling positive things to yourself you'll believe those thoughts. It's psychology. IF it were me I wouldn't mind going with parents. It doesn't matter as long as your confident in yourself. Actually I might even walk with her to the dance. Like this you'll both exercise, you'll have time to talk and WHO else has walked her to a dance. No one. That means your different and rare, like a diamond. As for dancing. The best tip is to 1) look for black guys, because they are usually the best dancers, or any good male dancer and just copy exactly what he does. 2) When your copying his moves, let yourself know that you can move you body exactly the same way as this other guy. Just have confidence in yourself, and let us know how it goes and if this tip helps.

P.S. If things don't go well with this girl, just let yourself know that it's her lost for leaving such a fun and rare guy like you.
 
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