Well, my strategy of hiring models to photoshoot in lieu of asking them out on dates (at a similar overall expense) is backfiring: it's working TOO good. I just had to cancel a shoot for later.
I now meet girls who literally in their first text are confirming our date, and then they sort of stalk me a little. It makes them seem overeager. See the power of offering them value?
Some say to only use the phone to set up dates, but this can be taken to an extreme. The problem I'm seeing is probably one that us guys often make as we chase tail: not establishing rapport. There is something unsettling about confirming a date with someone who you haven't even really had a conversation with. I want to get to like them first, get to be excited to get a text from them. This usually takes a few days, and maybe seeing them one more time.
If there was one thing that made my last relationship work for so long, it's that we always had a fun, romantic dialog. Even when we broke up, and then when she came back to me, it was romantic. Many girls I find either aren't literate, are too business like, aren't romantic or aren't interested, and then I can't establish that dialog. If the relationship is physically chalk full of sex, the texting which ultimately unleashes those experiences can be powerful and exciting if done correctly.
Therefore, remember that when you pursue girls you should attempt to establish rapport before trying to confirm a date.
I now meet girls who literally in their first text are confirming our date, and then they sort of stalk me a little. It makes them seem overeager. See the power of offering them value?
Some say to only use the phone to set up dates, but this can be taken to an extreme. The problem I'm seeing is probably one that us guys often make as we chase tail: not establishing rapport. There is something unsettling about confirming a date with someone who you haven't even really had a conversation with. I want to get to like them first, get to be excited to get a text from them. This usually takes a few days, and maybe seeing them one more time.
If there was one thing that made my last relationship work for so long, it's that we always had a fun, romantic dialog. Even when we broke up, and then when she came back to me, it was romantic. Many girls I find either aren't literate, are too business like, aren't romantic or aren't interested, and then I can't establish that dialog. If the relationship is physically chalk full of sex, the texting which ultimately unleashes those experiences can be powerful and exciting if done correctly.
Therefore, remember that when you pursue girls you should attempt to establish rapport before trying to confirm a date.