That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by madgame
Just wondering though. How did you calculate your vert? Are you talking standing vert? And did you calculate by measuring the distance between your fingertips and how high u can touch the backboard/rim or something? Cause if I jump flatfooded without any running start at all I can touch the rim with my knuckles (those which are closest to the wrists) or well in otherwords i can "punch" the rim..that would be an 28 standing vertical but if I measure it on a wall by jumping and touching the wall as high as I can its only a 25 vertical...and my running vertical is like 32 inches.
If u got a standing vertical (measured at a wall) of 35 inches, your vertical is as high as the one of dwyane wade..your running vert would be about 42 inches and you would only be 4 inches short of being able to touch the rim with your head.
Dont mean to diss ya, but I think most ppl probably measure their running verticals (or measure wrong or whateva) when they say they have verticals high in the 30s when in the NCAA I for example most players verticals are between 27 and 31 inches.
(Most NBA Players are between 28 and 34 if what i read is right).
So just wondering, maybe your hops are really that crazy but u were probably talking running vert right?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not necessarily madgame, its a complicated thing. I would be willing to bet that maurice green, worlds fastest man, probably can't jump that high. He is pretty heavy for his height and has extremely thick thighs, I would be willing to bet his vertical is in the 30's range, great but nothing spectacular.Originally posted by madgame
well or in other words a quick first step depends on your "explosiveness" just like your vertical leap. Anyways maybe there's a little difference between the two, but basically the quicker you are the higher youll be able to jump and vice versa...youll never see a player whos slow on his feet but has an amazing vertical and youll never see a player who does 360 windmill dunks at 5'6 but is slow![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah I think so too. I bet he has a standing vertical (measured the way I "suggested" earlier) of definetly over 30 inches (you didnt say anything else actually), but hes definetly more muscular than the average nba player and if he lost like 15-20 lbs he would have an exceptional vertical in my opinion. Actually his vertical might even be way over 30 inches at his current height already, but all we can do here is guess...Not necessarily madgame, its a complicated thing. I would be willing to bet that maurice green, worlds fastest man, probably can't jump that high. He is pretty heavy for his height and has extremely thick thighs, I would be willing to bet his vertical is in the 30's range, great but nothing spectacular.
Im pretty damn sure you couldnt. Lebron and Kobe are some of the quickest players in the NBA.And A LOT of pro basketball players that are great jumpers are not that fast at all. At a 4.6 40 I could probably outrun Kobe and Lebron no problem in a sprint.
From what I know olympic track sprinters are just averagely tall people. I think I've seen some top notch sprinters on tv (at the olympics for example) who were 6'3 6'4...and I guess that the main reason most sprinters are of average height (Im sure its wrong to say they are usually "small" compared to average ppl, not nba players) is that being tall is just not an advantage in sprinting..so its just way more likely that a sprinter is 6 foot tall than being 6'8 because theres a **** load of 6 foot tall ppl out there but only few ppl are as tall as the guys in the NBA.Thats why all the Olympic track sprinters are usually shorter people, anywhere from 5'8 -6'2 at the tallest. Height and leg length can definitely negatively affect sprinting ability, big time.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.