"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Juggling Multiple Girls

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DmanD

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k so i need some advice on dealing w/ a situation.

There are currently 3-4 girls im gameing. All of them are totally obssesed with me (thx sosuave.com btw),they are 6-7s, except one (an 8-8.5) who is interested but playing it hard to get and stuff. She is the one I actually want. Now, im not super expirienced, so im thinking i'll practice w/ the 6-7s which will lead to me having more expirience regardless, of w/e happens w/ the 8 (who is out of town for a week which means i cant really do anything). There is a small difficulty though. Around the place I live news about hook ups, heads, and sex etc. spread really fast. And since i know many people, anything i do gets spread around even quicker. So I decided that i would focus on the 6-7s and keep it on the downlow and then dump them if stuff w/ the 8 works out.

Do you guys think i made the right decision?? (several opinions would be nice)

and in general, how do you game many girls? (not only flirting cause i have mastering that, but actually making out and sleeping w/ many of them)

thanks in advance
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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john paul

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Always keep it on the downlow. People shouldn't know who you are banging unless its a girlfriend.

Make it clear that your looking for a good time and not a relationship and you can get with all of them multiple times.

Some girls might next you becasue they dont like this but if you dont want them to be your girlfriend theres not much you can do. Don't lead them on and let them think you want a relationship and then split becasuse thats when you get a bad rep thats hard to get rid of.
 
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defiancy

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I agree with john paul. I read a post long ago that you shouldn't go all out as a DJ in high school. There needs to be small adjustments. Normally, if you're in a relationship with couple girls, it will not end well because all the girls will eventually find out.

If it is more like a casual relationship in a way, you'll be fine.
 
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