"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Juggling Multiple Girls

DmanD

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k so i need some advice on dealing w/ a situation.

There are currently 3-4 girls im gameing. All of them are totally obssesed with me (thx sosuave.com btw),they are 6-7s, except one (an 8-8.5) who is interested but playing it hard to get and stuff. She is the one I actually want. Now, im not super expirienced, so im thinking i'll practice w/ the 6-7s which will lead to me having more expirience regardless, of w/e happens w/ the 8 (who is out of town for a week which means i cant really do anything). There is a small difficulty though. Around the place I live news about hook ups, heads, and sex etc. spread really fast. And since i know many people, anything i do gets spread around even quicker. So I decided that i would focus on the 6-7s and keep it on the downlow and then dump them if stuff w/ the 8 works out.

Do you guys think i made the right decision?? (several opinions would be nice)

and in general, how do you game many girls? (not only flirting cause i have mastering that, but actually making out and sleeping w/ many of them)

thanks in advance
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john paul

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Always keep it on the downlow. People shouldn't know who you are banging unless its a girlfriend.

Make it clear that your looking for a good time and not a relationship and you can get with all of them multiple times.

Some girls might next you becasue they dont like this but if you dont want them to be your girlfriend theres not much you can do. Don't lead them on and let them think you want a relationship and then split becasuse thats when you get a bad rep thats hard to get rid of.
 

defiancy

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I agree with john paul. I read a post long ago that you shouldn't go all out as a DJ in high school. There needs to be small adjustments. Normally, if you're in a relationship with couple girls, it will not end well because all the girls will eventually find out.

If it is more like a casual relationship in a way, you'll be fine.
 
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