"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Juggling Multiple Girls

DmanD

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k so i need some advice on dealing w/ a situation.

There are currently 3-4 girls im gameing. All of them are totally obssesed with me (thx sosuave.com btw),they are 6-7s, except one (an 8-8.5) who is interested but playing it hard to get and stuff. She is the one I actually want. Now, im not super expirienced, so im thinking i'll practice w/ the 6-7s which will lead to me having more expirience regardless, of w/e happens w/ the 8 (who is out of town for a week which means i cant really do anything). There is a small difficulty though. Around the place I live news about hook ups, heads, and sex etc. spread really fast. And since i know many people, anything i do gets spread around even quicker. So I decided that i would focus on the 6-7s and keep it on the downlow and then dump them if stuff w/ the 8 works out.

Do you guys think i made the right decision?? (several opinions would be nice)

and in general, how do you game many girls? (not only flirting cause i have mastering that, but actually making out and sleeping w/ many of them)

thanks in advance
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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john paul

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Always keep it on the downlow. People shouldn't know who you are banging unless its a girlfriend.

Make it clear that your looking for a good time and not a relationship and you can get with all of them multiple times.

Some girls might next you becasue they dont like this but if you dont want them to be your girlfriend theres not much you can do. Don't lead them on and let them think you want a relationship and then split becasuse thats when you get a bad rep thats hard to get rid of.
 

defiancy

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I agree with john paul. I read a post long ago that you shouldn't go all out as a DJ in high school. There needs to be small adjustments. Normally, if you're in a relationship with couple girls, it will not end well because all the girls will eventually find out.

If it is more like a casual relationship in a way, you'll be fine.
 
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