"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Juggler's Methods

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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If anyone who used his dating methods could you please tell me how is it. I was planning to order his ebook for quite sometime. However, I also kept hearing how good david d from ebaumsworld.com and the stuff posted up there. I'm dedicated to buy one reliable source.
Can anyone tell me which is better?
Mahalo
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey there Rookie.

Out of the two, I'd say Juggler's e-book is the better of the two. However, I can't say these dating e-books are worth their weight in Gold. They cost a crap-load of $$$, and the information they provide isn't THAT life changing. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE Juggler's e-book and I keep rereading it every week or two but...its a lot of money. That said, the Juggler method forms the basis for my game:yes:

The only e-book I would actually recommend BUYING is the "Venusian Artist's Handbook" by Mystery. However, that book is more on Pickup and provides minimal info on inner game and long term stuff. But if you're interested in Pickup, I swear, there isn't a SINLGE book out there that can beat it.

G'luck with your knowledge searching. Oh, and remeber there are FREE stuff all over the internet about seduction. Be sure to check em out before you shell out on e-books.

p.s. another GREAT book I would recommend is Swingcats. It's got a good balance of inner game and techniques. But its a bit advanced and has loads of concepts in it. But it's also one of the few e-books I actually keep on rereading.
 

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dont waste your money on e-books, most of the information can be found on the net in various sites like this one. i can tell you from experience that it makes little difference what you read if your not active in the field. get in the field and after each pick up see where your sticking points are then work on them. for example if you get stuck on kino escalation then work specifically on that till ur over it. if its inner game you want to improve, read an e-book called the power of concentration. its free just google it. this book will help your inner a fair bit
 

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whats up rookie.

I own 75% of all of david d's materials and I can assure you that he DOES set the standard in what conserns Inner Game. And it's the inner game information that's gonna help you in the long run.

What you have to bare in mind is that each guy specializes in a different part of DJ'ing, and that they are totally isolated blocks of information.

DD goes for a more theoretical point of view and goes all the way to the core of matters and then interrelates them from the attraction dynamics. He is the guy with more onfo out there and he ONLY addresses the innitial dating phase! Mystery is pure practical sutff and the result of real in-fiel experience. Mystery is a great observer, and a true scientist in my opinnion.

I dont actually own any of juggler's stuff, but he seems pretty good from what I have seen from.

I'd go for DD, first the ebook and then the DVDs he is an absoluto PRO and has been doing it for many years, so you'll bennefit from that. And his REFERENCE MATERIALS are endless. Life changing info for me. I love the guy, even if he looks kinda dorky for a PUA.

Just remember, that it's all about learning different skills. Kinda like building blocks. I had to learn how to say hi in an attractive way, keep a conversation, have a nice voice, get a phone number, etc., and they are all sepparate things that you have to master, but someday it will all start comming together naturally.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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