"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Juggler's Methods

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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If anyone who used his dating methods could you please tell me how is it. I was planning to order his ebook for quite sometime. However, I also kept hearing how good david d from ebaumsworld.com and the stuff posted up there. I'm dedicated to buy one reliable source.
Can anyone tell me which is better?
Mahalo
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey there Rookie.

Out of the two, I'd say Juggler's e-book is the better of the two. However, I can't say these dating e-books are worth their weight in Gold. They cost a crap-load of $$$, and the information they provide isn't THAT life changing. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE Juggler's e-book and I keep rereading it every week or two but...its a lot of money. That said, the Juggler method forms the basis for my game:yes:

The only e-book I would actually recommend BUYING is the "Venusian Artist's Handbook" by Mystery. However, that book is more on Pickup and provides minimal info on inner game and long term stuff. But if you're interested in Pickup, I swear, there isn't a SINLGE book out there that can beat it.

G'luck with your knowledge searching. Oh, and remeber there are FREE stuff all over the internet about seduction. Be sure to check em out before you shell out on e-books.

p.s. another GREAT book I would recommend is Swingcats. It's got a good balance of inner game and techniques. But its a bit advanced and has loads of concepts in it. But it's also one of the few e-books I actually keep on rereading.
 

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dont waste your money on e-books, most of the information can be found on the net in various sites like this one. i can tell you from experience that it makes little difference what you read if your not active in the field. get in the field and after each pick up see where your sticking points are then work on them. for example if you get stuck on kino escalation then work specifically on that till ur over it. if its inner game you want to improve, read an e-book called the power of concentration. its free just google it. this book will help your inner a fair bit
 

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whats up rookie.

I own 75% of all of david d's materials and I can assure you that he DOES set the standard in what conserns Inner Game. And it's the inner game information that's gonna help you in the long run.

What you have to bare in mind is that each guy specializes in a different part of DJ'ing, and that they are totally isolated blocks of information.

DD goes for a more theoretical point of view and goes all the way to the core of matters and then interrelates them from the attraction dynamics. He is the guy with more onfo out there and he ONLY addresses the innitial dating phase! Mystery is pure practical sutff and the result of real in-fiel experience. Mystery is a great observer, and a true scientist in my opinnion.

I dont actually own any of juggler's stuff, but he seems pretty good from what I have seen from.

I'd go for DD, first the ebook and then the DVDs he is an absoluto PRO and has been doing it for many years, so you'll bennefit from that. And his REFERENCE MATERIALS are endless. Life changing info for me. I love the guy, even if he looks kinda dorky for a PUA.

Just remember, that it's all about learning different skills. Kinda like building blocks. I had to learn how to say hi in an attractive way, keep a conversation, have a nice voice, get a phone number, etc., and they are all sepparate things that you have to master, but someday it will all start comming together naturally.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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