"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Juggler to hit Prime Time

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So it seems that my close friend Juggler (we went for ice cream a few weeks ago) is going to have his own reality show. Here is what he posted on his blog: Discuss amongst yourselves...



Breaking news! Our television program to air in August posted on Tuesday, July 04, 2006


I have decided to break the news first here in my Blog. The rumors are true. Johnny and I spent the Spring in London shooting a reality television program for the Channel Four Network in the UK. http://www.channel4.com/

First of all, shooting a television show is tough. We worked 15 hour days and I did not get any chocolate. At times I questioned whether I wanted to have a television show. But I have seen the final edit and seriously guys, I am excited. It was worth the hard work. Johnny's hair looks great and one of our characters, Neal steals the show. Our director Mark who also shot the most popular episodes of the UK Apprentice is a genius and was great fun to work with. The cast, crew and production company were top notch. And the people at Channel Four have been very supportive. I look forward to shooting the next one real soon.

Right now we know it will air sometime in August. Feel free to call the network and pester them for an exact air date. The working title is 'Seduction School' but that will probably change as well. I'm told approximately 3 million people will view this show. That is something I tried not to think too much about when the camera was pointed our way. I hope Johnny and I can still teach our workshops somewhat undercover in London. In any case stay tuned for more information.

Wayne
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i live in the states, but if someone has a way of getting this on the internet (which i expect it to be) i would TOTALLY watch it.


might kill some of the fun tho, if women are wise to it. Glad im not in the UK!
 

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sellout :rolleyes:
 

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PUA is going mainstream, but why do us DJs care? We've got our act together.... or at least getting near it. No worries about what the big gurus do ;P
 

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I wonder if shows like this will ever really change anything...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey Resilliant,

I recognize you from the Charisma Arts board. I stopped posting here once I got access over there but I thought I would spread the word about Juggler.
 

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I know dude, I felt totally humbled that Juggler would take me on an "insta-date" :flowers:
 
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