"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Judging how women will look later based on (older) female family members?
- Thread starter AlphaNate
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yes, if she has the same eating habits.
Her eating habits are not very good, unless she's with me. Ruh roh.
Completely agree.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Maybe, help her count her calories?
Watching and counting helped me the most... I was at 4000, now down to less than 2000 calories, and less than 50/60g of carbs. All I did, was ask myself...do I really need all those calories??? the answer was no, but only on free days.
As the weight comes off, I get more and more attention from the ladies. (Six plates and counting) I naturally, have muscles, so no gym required. Dieting just uncovers the good stuff.
Call it the "put the fork down, math diet"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
if she's not fat now, why would she suddenly become fat? what changes are you anticipating?
unless she suddenly starts living a way more sedentary lifestyle or suddenly starts drinking bacon grease with her meals, she's not likely to get fat for literally no reason
and even then, becoming fat takes a long time, you'll see it coming way in advance and if she doesn't want to take steps to correct it you'll be able to eject way in advance.