"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Judging how women will look later based on (older) female family members?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yes, if she has the same eating habits.
Her eating habits are not very good, unless she's with me. Ruh roh.
Completely agree.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Maybe, help her count her calories?
Watching and counting helped me the most... I was at 4000, now down to less than 2000 calories, and less than 50/60g of carbs. All I did, was ask myself...do I really need all those calories??? the answer was no, but only on free days.
As the weight comes off, I get more and more attention from the ladies. (Six plates and counting) I naturally, have muscles, so no gym required. Dieting just uncovers the good stuff.
Call it the "put the fork down, math diet"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
if she's not fat now, why would she suddenly become fat? what changes are you anticipating?
unless she suddenly starts living a way more sedentary lifestyle or suddenly starts drinking bacon grease with her meals, she's not likely to get fat for literally no reason
and even then, becoming fat takes a long time, you'll see it coming way in advance and if she doesn't want to take steps to correct it you'll be able to eject way in advance.