"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Judge my c+f and neg hits in this convo.. i wanna know if im doin it right

McKindley

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It doesn't matter if she is a geek as well. You just don't want HER to know YOU have so little to do with your time that you will spend hours talking to a stranger on the net. However, I give you props for actually trying to talk to girls and improve your DJ skills

little points: that part where she listed all the "crazy" stuff she does would have been a good time to neg her. Instead you just reinforced her belief that she is crazy (which from her list, I don't think she's any different than 90% of the people I've met.)

Definately quit the whole "gangsta" thing. If you REALLY don't know what we're talking about, just re read that really long convo you posted. There is no possible way you can pretend you don't know what we're talking about.

Some guys may differ on this opinion, but I don't personally like steering a conversation towards sex with a girl too early (and if you haven't met her, I'd say its too early.) Keep it light and fun. Be witty. Don't ask her about all the crazy sexual stuff she's into. everyone likes sex. but if that is ALL you want to talk about (unless she's a ***** that uses sex to elicit attention from men) it could backfire.

Furthermore, your long convo post had NO funny stuff coming from you. All you wanted to talk about was sex stuff. Be witty, have fun.

I'm not trying to be all negative. The only real positive thing I have to say is you didn't do all the talking like you did in the first convo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FreeStyleZ

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I honsetly dont know what gangsta talk you're talking about. I'm black... and ive been talking like this for a long time. If you consider it gangsta then you are very sheltered or just have not been around many black people before. I dont know what to tell you.
 
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